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Monday, May 7th, 2012
I am fiercely protective when it comes to my family. I think we all are. It’s human nature to protect what’s yours and that’s how I feel each and every time someone tries to hurt my love ones. I remember going to a neighbor’s house and asking someone to go down so I could punch her in the face for starting a rumor about the sale of our house and lot. I was so furious back then because my mom’s relatives particularly an aunt of hers was reacting negatively to it, causing more trouble for my whole family. Had she gone down her house, I would have not only punched her in the face I would probably have kicked her mouth shut so she wouldn’t have to say anything bad about us again! I also remember this one guy in the neighborhood trying to be a smart aleck so he would look cute to my youngest sister… I almost smacked him in the face!
I am a decent person but when it comes to family matters, my protective instincts as the oldest daughter and sister in the family kick in. I can turn from one quiet and peace-loving person to a monster of a person when I feel like a love one is getting hurt.
I believe they feel the same way towards me. I’ve seen it happen in the past. But as much as possible I don’t let them see my vulnerability because I don’t want them to worry about anything. I can do that for them.
Monday, April 23rd, 2012
We lose people in our lives. It’s a normal part of life. But no matter how normal it is, no matter how old your loved one was before he/she died, you’re still not prepared for it. I don’t think there is a proper preparation for the death of a love one. I don’t think we’re ever prepared no matter how much we say it. It’s still painful to lose one.
Spend time with the loves of your lives. Spend time with the people who matter. We just never know when they will be taken away from us. It may be today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year. We never know and when that time comes, at least we won’t be filled with regret for not spending as much time as we can with them. We can say goodbye even if it hurts so much to do so.
Monday, April 9th, 2012
Two very sad events took place last Holy Week. Our pet Siberian Husky Drako died on Maundy Thursday and our beloved paternal grandmother Nanay died on Good Friday.
It was truly sad and heartbreaking for all of us. We both love Drako and Nanay fiercely. We all thought Drako dying might save Nanay’s life. We believe in pets sacrificing their lives for love ones. But I guess Drako’s death gave us just a bit more time with Nanay.
Nanay’s health was really bad and we all knew deep down that it’s just a matter of time. But it was still so sudden. The day we rushed her to the ER for difficulty in breathing I was still talking to her about stuff. Two days after, she passed away.
She will be buried on April 14, 2012. Drako was already laid to rest at a tree-filled lot nearby.
Rest in peace, Drako and Nanay. You will both be missed.
Saturday, March 31st, 2012
Drako is our baby in the family. He is a Siberian Husky puppy that my brother got about a month ago. Every single member of the family adores him! He is such a cute little pup and he knows it!
My brother took him to the vet this afternoon. Before that, he was playing with our other puppies and he’s so naughty he’s trying to steal the food of our other pups. But coming home from the vet, he’s already so weak. My brother was told by the vet that Drako is actually suffering from the beginnings of a kidney disease. Drako’s sick and we are all suffering alongside him.
I didn’t know you can love a pet this much! We are all praying that he recovers really soon.
Monday, February 20th, 2012
Meet our newest family member… Patchie! 
I got her last February 5th. She was born on November 30th so she will turn 3 months this coming end of February. Isn’t she cute? I just love how sweet she is! When she sees that I am already awake, she will go to me and lick my leg to signify that she wants to be picked up and cuddled.
I just love my new baby! 
Monday, January 30th, 2012
I have so many plans going through my mind right now. Plans that I know will need a lot of money if I will put it into action. The very thing running through my mind right this very moment is to have the walls in the house painted white. Or light yellow. I don’t know what it’s called exactly but a soothing yellow, if you must. Or white! That’s actually the color that I want since I want a really bright house. No need for the lights to be turned on if you have white walls. The color alone symbolizes tranquility for me so I really want that. But the sibs don’t want an all-white house so I can compromise with the soothing yellow.
I really wish I didn’t spend the money in just two months. I wish we didn’t go out almost every other day eating out and spending a lot on meals. I could have used that money for the wall painting plan I have in mind. I could have used the money for a trip to Baguio City or Cebu City this month. Oh well…
No more time for regrets. No more crying over spilled milk. It’s all been done and all I can do is learn from it and never let that situation repeat itself.
But on with the wall painting…
I think what I will do is have the paints bought first. Then the other stuff that will be needed. And then have the walls assessed by an expert. Then come summer, around March, I will have the walls done.
Friday, November 4th, 2011
Hazel got a belated birthday gift from Ate Shen! 
It’s an art craft set with beads, yarns and fake cute kid tattoos. It also has ribbons and a plain white headband that can be decorated by the kid. The set is perfect to bring out a kid’s creativity. When Hazel saw it, she immediately became excited and created a bracelet of her own.
Thank you, Ate Shen! You made Hazel’s day!
Thursday, November 3rd, 2011
One of the things I love about my dad’s side of the family is that when there is an emergency you can expect them to be there to help out as well as offer support. We already experienced that with everything that happened to my immediate family in the past. My brother diagnosed with leukemia, rushed to the hospital several times, suffered a worse seizure that caused his left eye to go blind, and then passing away after just 6 months. They were there every single time! Almost all my dad’s siblings and some older cousins were even there in the hospital at past midnight accompanying us during the seizures that my brother suffered from. They never left us.
The same thing happened during my mom’s last year. They were there visiting, offering moral support, helping out in the little things (that mattered to us so much!) and even risking their lives fetching my grandfather from the province just so he could see my mom still alive. For that alone I will always be indebted to them.
My Tita Wilma and her husband were the designated tagasundo at tagahatid. She also was the designated person for clothes of my brother and my mom as well as for us to wear during the burial. We didn’t have to ask her, she already volunteered to do it. We were so thankful for that kind of help because when you are in that kind of situation, grieving and all that, that’s the farthest thing from your mind. We didn’t hear any complaints from Tito Eddie, her husband, for all the driving back and forth that he did.
My Tita Windy and Tito Lito, Tita Winnie as well as Tito Wilson, Tita Rosing, Tito Walet, Tito Walter and Tito Warner were also a big help to us. They were the source of our strength during those times we were beside ourselves with grief. Tita Mates, Tito Walter’s wife, was the one who really dedicated herself to helping us with all the cooking, cleaning, and marketing. Tito Wilson is a fixture in all the important events in my family’s life because of all my dad’s siblings, they’re the closest.
And now that Tito Wilson suffered two heart strokes in a span of few days, we are in full support mode. We rushed him to the hospital last night. We were there and didn’t leave until all the necessary tests were done. My dad and his siblings will be going back there tonight.
In times of emergencies and crises in our lives the support of the family is very important. The mere presence of those important to us can give us a boost. It can drive away the fear and the uncertainty of the present. And I am very happy that in my dad’s side of the family, even with all the disagreements and constant bickering common in very large families, we are still united at the time it’s most needed!
Friday, September 23rd, 2011
My dad’s older brother suffered his third heart stroke a couple of days ago. It was really sad considering that his two sons are working abroad and it’s just him and my aunt. Good thing that my older cousin, their eldest daughter, lives just a few houses away and was able to respond to their call for help.
My uncle and aunt live in another city. Even though we don’t see them all the time, we are still close to them. My dad and my uncle are like best friends already. And my siblings are I are really close to their children, especially to our male cousins working abroad. You can just imagine how affected we were when we learned about what happened.
My uncle’s right eye slightly popped out. He’s seeing double and the doctors said that he busted a vein behind his right eye. His cholesterol, blood sugar, and blood pressure shot up and wouldn’t go down. We knew he was worrying a lot and we were right! He told us that he thought he wouldn’t be seeing his sons anymore. He also worries about the costs of his hospitalization and the medicines that will be given to him. Of course, my cousins will shoulder all the bills. Still…
We are all praying for his speedy recovery. He is a fixture in our family gatherings and out-of-town trips. We can’t imagine one without him.
Please say a little prayer for my uncle when you read this.
Saturday, September 17th, 2011
When do I stop being the big sister? Is it bad that I am overprotective of my siblings who are all younger than me? I know that letting them live their lives is far more important so as to teach them to be stronger and more resilient for harder challenges later in life. But I just couldn’t stop being the big sister especially when I see my sibling crying or hurting. I do try hard not to meddle. I am also afraid of them being weak when it comes to trials because they always think they have an older sister to run to. But it’s hard.
I believe I will always be their ate no matter what.
Saturday, September 3rd, 2011
September is a very busy month for me and the family. Three birthdays are in line this month: today is my youngest sister’s, on the 19th for my sister next to me, and on the 26th is my youngest brother’s. My mom’s death anniversary is on the 29th. Let me also include in this month’s numerous events my very good friend’s birthday on the 17th.
It will be a very busy month for us so whenever someone asks if I am free to meet up, my automatic response is by October. Aside from the fact that it will be a weekly family affair (birthday celebrations is a big deal for us so presence is required), it is also a costly month so all the extra funds will go to buying gifts.
Saturday, August 20th, 2011
That’s my baby growing up so fast! She will be turning 6 on October 16th. She is now in Kinder and every time I blink and look at her, she seems to be growing. I am enjoying every moment spent with her. I want to be able to see every mischievous smile and enjoy every fun activity with my little girl.
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